Pretty much since those two (beautiful) pink lines showed up I have been begging Jacob to agree to cloth diaper. From the get-go he was against it. Then out of nowhere he turns to me and says, "Honey, maybe we
should cloth diaper!" This was probably the best "news" I've gotten since peeing on that stick. Just to get it out in the open, here's the pros and cons (for us anyway):
Pros
1. Cost affective! Disposable diapers are about 30 cents per diaper. For about 3 months, baby goes through about 10 a day (sometimes more) and through potty training about 7. So that's about $270 for the newborn phase, and if the baby potty trains at the average age of 3 years old that's about $2110. Altogether that is about $2380, and that's a conservative number. A good "stash" of cloth diapers, even the more expensive ones, can cost about $500, on the high end. Personally, Jacob and I have decided to spend around $300 on them, if all goes according to plan.
2. The environment. This one is iffy, some people argue that the cost of production and maintenance (ie washing and drying) is comparable to the amount of plastic diapers we put in the land fills. Personally, I feel that "wasting" water is not as bad as filling the earth with poop. Apparently it can take 500 years to decompose 1 disposable diaper- eek.
3. Potty training! Look back to #1 when I quote the prices and say that the baby potty trains at 3 years old. Well, guess what? Cloth diapered babies generally potty train
much sooner. Cloth diapered babies potty train around 18 months-24 months, disposable diapered babies around 3-4 (on average).
4. Less diaper rash. I don't remember the exact statistic, but something like only 7% of babies had diaper rashes before the disposables. Nowadays, when majority of babies are using disposables something like 78% have diaper rashes.
5. Less chemicals. Disposables have a chemical in it called, "sodium polyacralate" and if it gets on baby's skin its not good! Polyacralate is super absorbent and that is why it is used in disposables, but interesting fact: it has been banned from being used in feminine products, but
not in disposable diapers. How messed up is that? Also, some people believe that the chemicals in the disposables can cause or worsen asthma and maybe even cause toxic shock syndrome.
6. Cute! Okay, Jacob likes to speculate that this is my #1 reason for choosing to cloth diaper, but I promise it isn't! But how cute are those cloth diaper covers that can come in so many fun colors and patterns? I feel like that is a lot more fun than pastel Winnie the Pooh, but that's just me.
Cons (and my rebuttal)
1. Sooo much laundry! Yeah I will
have to do laundry every 1-2 days, but guess what? I can totally do it. I am notorious for letting my laundry pile up, but we always have clean towels and undies and whatever we need. The baby will need diapers so they will get washed. It may be irritating, but I feel like I'd get in a groove, every other day gotta do a load, and it will just be 2nd nature. Who knows maybe it will help with my other laundry habits.
2. So gross! You have to scrape poop!? Yeah, you have to scrape the poop, and this was Jacob's main issue. But did you know you are supposed to do that even with your run of the mill Pampers, Huggies, and Luvs? Yeah for real!Its a violation of World Health Organization, APHA, and CDC guidelines to just "throw" your poopy diapers away. Think of gross poop is and all the "crap" it contains. When it goes into our landfills it can leach into our water supply, not just the obviously gross stuff, but viruses too- like Polio. They have diaper sprayers that aren't that costly, and yeah its pretty nasty, but I heard breast fed babies' poo doesn't smell quite as bad as formula fed babies, so I am thinking I can deal. Plus I worked at a vet clinic.
3. Leaks and blow-outs. I only read about this in a couple of places, but cloth diapers are just as (if not more) effective at containing those messes as disposables. The most common cause of leaks with cloth diapers are either low quality/absorbency or the brand/style just doesn't just fit your baby. Just like disposables you need to explore other options- if Luvs doesn't work you try Huggies, same theory applies to cloth diapers.
4. Uhm, what do you do with your dirties before they are washed? Diaper pails or bags are really effective and there are a lot of options to be used. I haven't really read about a mother who could
not find a solution to the stinkies because there are just so many out there. Also, it isn't like there is a pail of dirty diapers hanging around your house for a week(+). You wash your diapers every other day, at least, along with the liner or bag.
5. Diaper creams. No, you can't use Desitin or the raved about Butt Paste because it messes with the absorbency of your cloth diapers, but there are plenty of options out there for baby. And actually, breast milk is good for soothing rashes, weird, huh?
6. Energy cost. Okay, I can't really get around this one, except by saying the increase in our electric bill is going to suck (it won't be comparable to the cost of disposables, though I am sure) and we don't pay for our water!
7. A lot of day cares don't allow them! If our baby ends up in day care we will try to find a cloth diaper friendly provider, or just suck up the fact that baby will be on disposables. Not really something that can be avoided.
Okay so that's my schpeel on cloth diapers. I am really excited about this little venture. I honestly haven't come across one family member who is completely supportive of it and that kind of sucks, but I have some friends helping me out and that is great! The choice to cloth diaper was a hard one for Jacob and I, or at least a long time coming. For Jacob it took a ton of deliberation and it could have just as easily gone the other way. In fact, we have two packages of disposables under our bathroom counter. So that being said, I don't "judge" anyone who chooses to use disposables, it is a personal parenting choice that everybody has the right to make themselves!
Night everyone! Love, the Christians- Jacob, Jess, Cricket, Courage, and the melon kicking my bladder